Monday, May 16, 2011

is he fuckin kiddin me?

So the girl who sits next to me at work is 3 months ahead of me in her pregnancy. She and I cover each other's guys when the other is out, or on the phone, etc. So when the loser and I were forbidden to talk to each other, she was doing his work for him as she was the only other assistant that had access to his accounts. Well... The whole time she was working for him, she would tell me how she thinks he should be fired, how horrible he his, how she has no pity on him, etc, but then flirt back and forth on emails. And I mean flirt like joking and being silly. Oh its just so cute!!! (Barf)
So now he's been gone for a few weeks. And he's clearly missing people here since he keeps asking everyone if they miss him. Except me of course! So her baby shower was this weekend. I wonder how he even knew about it!!! He emails her and says "just wanted to congratulate you on your baby shower this past weekend. Hope you had a great time!!!!! PS I hope you're not missing me too much these days"
Let's talk about this bullshit for a second. WORRY ABOUT YOUR OWN FUCKING BABY YOU SCUMBAG!!!! If you miss it here its your own fault for being a psycho asshole! You are a scumbag low life who only cares about yourself! Why do you feel the need to be all nice to her? Espeeeeecially when you know DAMN well when I have the baby or the baby shower you won't want anything to do with it?? God I hate him. Seeing things like this makes me NOT feel guilty!!!
Her response made me even more sick: "HEYYYYYYY thank you!!!! It was very nice! We did have a good time it was a little cold but it didn't rain... Of course I miss you, there's no one to talk yankees with...speaking of I am no longer a jorge fan!! Lol JK how are you doing?"
The whole interaction made me sick. I'm sure she's just being nice, but don't talk shit out of one side of your mouth then pretend you like him out of the other side. So he answers back: "fine..." Then some other bullshit about seeing a game in box seats with a wholesaler from work, blah blah. Yeah he's fine. He can go fuck himself. Then I went to check his office to see if he threw away a present I gave him from vegas. It was a little bag with dice that read "douchebag's casino" and craps chips. We actually played it in his office. It was fun! We rolled the dice, bet the chips etc. Well sure enough it was in the trash. I took them and the plants I gave him back to my desk. Uuuuggghhh!!!! God I hate him! I wanted to text him and say "someone threw your vegas present away by accident." Or something like that. But he's not worth my text.
I am seriously reconsidering taking him to court and having him involved in any way whatsoever with this baby. I really don't want him to be any part of the baby's life or mine. I don't want him to think he has any right or say in anything I do or anything pertaining to the baby. I want him to always wonder but not actually know. He's too evil. I can't express enough how much I hate him.
Also, I called the genetic counselor. No results yet. If the results are positive, I'm takin his ass to court. If not, I have to think about it. And thank you so much for all the encouragement and kind words from everyone! :) and to rafa for aways commenting.

5 comments:

Rafa said...

Yeah he's probably banging that chick also. What a douche

whaatamithinking said...

No, I doubt that rafa... She's 7 1/2 months pregnant and not attracted to him at all. Not to mention she's much taller than him! I don't think he'll ever want to be involved with another woman while still married after me... I think maybe his stupid ass finally learned that one the hard way. Maybe not who knows

Anonymous said...

i dont think he will want anything to do with the baby anyway so stop worrying about that. He seems perfectly content to keep ignoring the whole situation.

Anonymous said...

Regardless of the test positive or negative take him to court period. You see, he owes 18 years of that baby's well being $$$$.

It's sad because every child needs their father in their life. While he won't be a "dad" he will be the "father". I hope this child in teen years doesn't act up (alot do about 80%)so sad so very sad).

I am sure u will be a wonderful mom, but all children need a male figure in their lives (no this is not being a male chavenist) as I am female. Good luck sweets!

Linda

whaatamithinking said...

Linda- my daughter has an idiot for a father and yes she has some issues because of it, but she is a GREAT kid because she is surrounded by a lot of people who love her, church, youth group, etc. And this baby will have all the same things but added people on top of that. And especially my daughtr will always take extra good care of her. Maybe I'll meet a new man one day and she'll have a real father. This idiot doesn't deserve to know this child.